Thursday, January 12, 2012

Friends

I was never one of the "popular" girls in school.

I had friends... don't get me wrong... but it was a small circle.

Each best friend I have had has fallen into a certain period of time... Beth was my elementary school best friend. Tiffany was my junior high best friend.  In high school, it was Kelly and Adam.  My freshman year of college, it was just Adam... with the rest of college being just Kelly.

Kelly and I had a falling out and didn't talk for 5 years.

When we started talking again, I didn't care if we were close again or not... but somehow we're back to how we were before the falling out.. if not closer.

She's like a sister to me.  Going more than a day without talking to her makes me feel I've dropped one of my limbs.

The funny thing to me is that I have a few friends that I have made on Twitter in the last 3 months that I feel the same way about as I do about a friend I've had for 18 years.

Kelly and I gossip and have such a history that I don't have to give any background.

My Twitter sisters are silly and filter-free.

The more I get to know them, the more I love them.

And there are two girls in particular that I have learned enough about to feel like we really are sisters because we have so much in common.

I have pretty much discovered that it doesn't matter how long you've been friends with someone... what matters is the kind of friend you are.

You get what you give.

And if you don't, you should just move on... find someone who does appreciate your friendship.

And with that said... if you are one of the girls I mentioned, anything you need at anytime... you all know how to get a hold of me!  Love you!!!

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